My best friend caught her boyfriend hanging out in a bar with his wife, from whom he's supposedly separated for ten months. God, it's a long story. But, it's on my mind and I wish it would go away. I have to keep remembering that it's not my bag of shit to carry around. I have to be honest though and maybe others should think less of me...but, I'd been hoping she would find him with his wife or another woman. Not that I want to see my best friend end up hurt. Never. But, I absolutely cannot tolerate this man. He's the furthest thing from a gentleman and lacks character and morals. Oh he may be a division director in a government setting and have the vocabulary of a college English professor, but that doesn't mean he's a good person. He uses her at every opportunity he gets and gives her false hope for their relationship. She's such a beautiful person. Granted - she allows him to do this to her and I'm not sure that I could ever get her to understand how she's being used; but, I still wish she could find a decent person to be in her life, to take care of her and show her that love is out there and can be alive. I guess I'm spoiled. My husband is a gentleman. He's from the old school of relationships. Women are to be put on a pedestal and respected, spoiled and most of all loved to pieces! LOL So, listen up ladies. Chivalry is not dead. You don't deserve what these men are giving to you. There are men out there who know how to treat a woman. You just have to open your eyes to the bullshit and then push it away. Don't allow it in your life. You don't deserve it. If only Cheryl would see the truth. I haven't talked to her today to see what the outcome was of their chat after she caught him. But, unfortunately, I know all too well the end result. I'm sure he ended up in her bed, apologizing his ass off, and giving her a false sense of hope until the next time he gets caught again. Will she wake up then?
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